(Closed) Planning a surprise wedding

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I think that’s really cute, why not! I would tell the kids and talk to them about it but I’d say no one else needs to know and it’s fun.

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

That’s cute! 

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

That sounds amazing!! Bonfire plus fireworks at your wedding? Incredible.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think that’s an amazing and I adore it.  What a special thing!  The only thing you might want to consider (maybe you did) is that some people might not make the extra to come if they have other plans or whatnot, not knowing it’s your wedding, then be really sad that they missed it when they find out.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Have you seen ‘The 5 Year Engagement’? The scene at the end? I don’t want to spoil it for you or anybody, but I really think you should watch it ๐Ÿ˜‰ It’s relevant!

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@SoggyGranola:  What a great idea! I think you should do it. 

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I know someone who did something very similar, and I think it’s a really cute idea. If you can make it work, you absolutely should do this.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

This is such a great idea! Go for it!!

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I think it’s great! Just make sure it’s ok with the friend – hopefully they won’t mind accidently/kinda/sorta hosting your wedding/reception. I’m sure they won’t care (it sounds like an amazing weekend) I would just double check. Maybe you could offer to cover the cost of like wine/champagne for everyone or something along those lines.

Post # 13
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Busy bee

I think it’s a bad idea. What if people deprioritized the occasion because they thought it was just an engagement party but may may have come if they knew it was a wedding?

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