- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
I knew planning a wedding would be alot of work but things are getting hard. I have been with my feince for 4 years now and he proposed in October. Things didn’t get off to a good start because my mom was pissed that I got engaged and she was not involved. He didn’t ask her or my stepdad, but he had my real dads blessing. She accused him of getting my ring from someone and not buying it because its not a diamond.
My family is in Pittsburgh and his family is in ohio and my mom is telling me that i will be married in Pittsburgh. My Feince and I are paying for the wedding, since my family is not willing to help and i don’t want to let his parents who have offred, since mine won’t, so I think i should have the say where. My parents haven’t even met his parents so things there are not easy.
Things are so crazy that i suggested Vegas and now he wants to invite everyone there. I want to save money so i want something small but if we do that i feel it is wrong to invite people and then when the ceremony is over tell them bye and not have a reception.
I suggested the Justice of the Peace and then doing two partys (one in Pittsburgh and one in Ohio) so we can celebrate with our families.
On top of everytihng my brothers girlfriend was going to help me but my brother proposed so now she told me that she has her own wedding to plan and mine is no longer of importance
Am I wrong to want to just run off and not Tell anyone I am getting married until afterwards