(Closed) planning can be a hassle

posted 5 years ago in May 2013
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@kristyafua: I hear you!  Perhaps a day per week with NO wedding stuff?  Or even a weekend, if you need to refresh.  We are getting so close to the happiest day of our life!  Let’s refuse to be unhappy and start delegating more!

Hugs and best wishes!  

Post # 5
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1710 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

@kristyafua:  I’m with you girl!!  Stress is taking over and is very apparent by the recent breakout on my face and back (like back-to-high-school type breakout).  Oy…

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@kristyafua:  As the manager of a busy office, there are lots of things that I don’t really trust anyone else to do the way I would like them done.  But you (and I) are only one person and cannot possibly do it all!

So maybe you could write a list of everything that needs to get done, then pick 3 or 4 that ONLY you can do best.  Give the rest to your Fiance, Maid/Matron of Honor, Mom/other ladies in your life and trust that they also want your wedding to be lovely.

I find that a quick prayer gives me the strength to admit my limitations!  Just agreed to talk to a caterer, instead of doing all the reception food ourselves.  May cost more, but the ability to enjoy our big day instead or worrying if there’s enough iced tea will be well worth it!

Best wishes!

Post # 9
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845 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I have an ulcer and an eye twitch. Mostly due to my job as a teacher. I can’t even worry about the wedding with all my work stress. 

Post # 10
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4436 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I have totally broken out on my face from all the decisions that need to be made! Yuck!!

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