(Closed) Planning drama wearing me down

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

You both need to be on the same page. And why is it that “no one” is taking you seriously? I know that most people only start to pay attention to weddings once the couple has set an official date. Have you done so?

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Awww I’m so sorry! I don’t have any real advice for you except just wait it out until you are both on the exact same page. And, sadly, that may never happen. You need to really think about if you want to do this or not, and if not cut your losses and move on. Life is too short hun!

Perhaps you could settle on an agreement like, hey let’s wait 6 months and see how we are feeling then. If all is good, let’s set a date then. Just take baby steps. Fiance and I have been engaged for two years and still have months to go before our big day.

Hang in there!

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

When we first got engaged we basically had to schedule planning time because we weren’t on the same page. My Fiance agreed to set a date to set a date — a ‘wedding meeting’ if you will — and gave me permission to remind him that it was coming up. By the time we sat down to sort it out he had given it thought and it was easy to pick a date.

It’s hard to come to concrete decisions when it’s just talking, I found. By making set times to actually DECIDE things we’re finally getting stuff done. Maybe you could do something like that?

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