Planning Engagement Party

posted 1 year ago in Parties
Post # 2
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Bee Keeper

Can’t you talk to her one on one about why the attitude towards you? Maybe it’s more than the dinner issue? 

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ValJack21 :  

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper

So wait, you will have the engagement party at your house next week and guests have rsvp’d already? If yes, I don’t know what else to tell you but perhaps just suck it up and have the party then. The only thing I could think of is to do it for the guests at this point. I don’t understand where this level of rudeness is coming from. With this attitude and her refusal to explain anything to you, I will not do anything for her anymore in the future. You have gone out of your way already several times. 

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ValJack21 :  

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper

Come back here next week and let us know how the engagement party goes.

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ValJack21 :  

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

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ValJack21 :  I don’t have advice but just logged in to say I’m sorry, this situation is really crappy. I agree you are stuck having the party, if she continues to be rude, please do not do anything else for her!

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper

I forgot to add that starting now and during the engagement  party, you should  limit any interaction with her. Talk to her only when absolutely necessary. 

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ValJack21 :  

Post # 9
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Sugar Beekeeper

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ValJack21 :  

l don’t know what is up with her OP, she said sounds ungrateful and rude. Is it possible she felt patronised , you know,  thinks you are being Lady Bountiful to her poor self?  Not that you sound anything like that l hasten to add. 

l think 

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socalgirl1689 :  has it right, distanced politeness, no more . And certainly no more putting yourself out for her. 

Post # 10
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2020

I’m so sorry she has this attitude towards you. If anything I’d be so grateful if anyone threw me a party! 
I agree with the others bees, at this point you are stuck having the party. But if I was you, I’d confront her anyhow. Ask her straight up if you have offended her in anway, because it kinda sounds like it from her attitude. Maybe she feels like you are pitying her? Or pushing too much on her? I’m not sure if she wanted a party or what, some people are odd and don’t like to be in the spotlight.

I hope it all works out for you in the end. Good luck! 

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper

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ValJack21 :  thanks for the update. I was wondering about you. Glad to know there was no issue during the engagement party. But that’s it. You shouldn’t be doing anything out of your way for her.

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