(Closed) Please don’t flirt with the man I’m getting ready to marry!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

maybe he can ignore her, and the problem will fix itself. Does he respond to these things? Cuz that could just be fueling her fire

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

uhh if my Fiance was entertaing this i would have some words to say to him….in no way shape or form do i find this ok. He needs to just write her off…I have no respect for women who hit on guy when they know he is in a relationship, much less engaged. Ticks me off.

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I don’t trust those kind of chicks. I would tell you Fiance to give her final warning. If she continues that is it.

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

He does not “have” to be friends with her.  He is choosing to be friends with her.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

My husband has female friends and I’m fine with it because they are also my friends but if one of them ever, EVER uttered the words she has to you, to him and on facebook, I would NOT be pleased.  You know that line…the one in the sand?  Well, she’s definitely crossed it.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

that’s a little creepy.  Those always turn into the ones that are bored and like to start drama so their days go faster.  I’d have him block her, I mean she lives far away … what the heck do they have in common?

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

He doesn’t have to reply, but he probably should start deleting inappropriate comments until she gets the point. If he deletes her comments enough, she will either tow the line or get even more outrageous which would give him the excuse (if he feels he needs one) to cut her off permanently.

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

@stephinPA:  couldn’t have said it any better – totally second that

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@SoontobeMrsA:  Your Fiance needs to handle this.  He should unfriend her and stop communicating with her – at all.  She’s no friend to either of you. 

Post # 14
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222 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

He needs to change his number and delete her off facebook. This is absolutely ridiculous. He needs to be the one to tell her to back off. Make him call her in front of you and tell her hit the road. If he doesn’t do it he is letting her disrespect you and you relationship.  This is NOT ok.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

If it were me, I would have to tell my Fiance that I’m just not comfortable with that kind of relationship at all. Hopefully he will see that anything that upsets you that much isn’t worth it and he will discontinue the relationship.

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