Please don't judge me, Im just hurting and in so much pain

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 17
199 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

If he hurt you enough where you had to leave him, then you should stay strong and not look back.  I understand how you feel and how hard it is, but just remember if you return to a relationship that you are not happy in, you will just be miserable in the long run. Writing down your emotions always help me.  Do things you love, and surely time will heal the pain you have in your heart. 

Post # 19
372 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2020 - Windermere, Cumbria

tattoosislife :  Stay strong bee, you can do this.

Post # 20
1135 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2018 - Fremont, CA

Remember why you broke up in the first place. Do you want to go back to being overridden and disrespected?To being ignored while he spends endless time on his phone? To having your feelings dismissed and mocked?

Post # 21
2707 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter\'s Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle

Can you go out and get your roommate to deal with him? Not seeing him again will help.

Post # 23
36 posts

I’m so sorry you’re going through this! In my opinion you should not meet up with him, not worth the hearthache. I know words may not really help but just know that this will pass and you will be happy again, I promise. We have all been through this hell, so many more times but we came out stronger than ever! 

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