(Closed) Please don't make fun of me for this…

posted 8 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Do you cuddle a stuffed animal or a pillow when he's not there to hold you tight while you sleep?

    Yes! I'm a cuddler and always need something.

    No. I don't need to.

    Other, please comment.

  • Post # 77
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I’m actually not much of a cuddler. He cuddles me, and I love it, but I don’t really cuddle back. If he isn’t home I tend to still stay on my side of the bed. I always, no matter if he is there or gone, sleep with my baby blanket. I could get rid of it, it isn’t like a childhood attachment items or anything, but it is comfortable to sleep on. And on anxious nights I guess it helps to have something to hug 🙂

    Post # 78
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    I *had* a teddy bear, but my 5yo stole him for himself. Otherwise I love sleeping with that bear!

    Post # 79
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

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    @PacificMrs:  Haha, that’s funny. You’re totally right about that!! Keep snuggling! =P

    Post # 80
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    Helper bee

    I marked “other.” I actually sleep wild. However, when im with him, I sleep only in two positions. So when I miss him, I try to sleep the way I would if he were there, and even stay on “my side” of the bed. lol 

    Post # 81
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    Bee Keeper

    I HATE cuddling but like a PP said I kind of hug my blankets for posture? haha

    Post # 82
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I spoon a pillow every night of my life, despite FH being in bed beside me 😉 

    Post # 83
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I LOVE PILLOWS… and being cocooned in blankets.

    So when Mr TTR is away, you’ll find be sprawled out more on the bed (vs just my side) and enjoying having all the blankets to myself… and snuggled with with a pillow or two… one for my head, and one to use length wise to cuddle with.  All luxuries I don’t have when Mr TTR is home.

    Mind you truth be told, I don’t sleep as soundly when he’s away, as when he’s here.  So as much as I like having the bed all to myself… I miss him more.

    Aaaah, ain’t that sweet Kiss *kissy face*

     

    Post # 84
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I ALWAYS sleep with my stuffed toy dog. Her name is Sonya and I’ve had her for almost twenty years. Needless to say, we are inseparable Smile

    Post # 85
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    I have a stuffed giraffe I’ve had since I was 4. I was so bummed out when I lost him for several years, but then he resurfaced when I was cleaning to get ready to move… he hasn’t been out of my sight since 🙂

    Post # 86
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @LovelyLaura8:  NO, even when he’s home we have a strict ‘don’t touch me, I am trying to sleep’ rule. 

    Post # 87
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

     He’s usually not away, but when he is, I need something. lol Usually my 100 lb. Alaskan Malamute is more than enough, especially because she’s a total cuddle bug and pretty much smooshes herself up against me anyway.

    Post # 88
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I like my lil fur baby to sleep right next to me when Fiance is not sleeping with me.

    Post # 89
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013 - The Skinner Barn

    My fiance is in the military and we currently live on opposite sides of the country. A couple of years ago he took me to Build a Bear and we made a stuffed bear in an Army uniform that I cuddle with every night.

    Post # 90
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: Camp Hope

    It’s not odd at all. My SO works nights at our local hospital so I don’t get to snuggle with him a lot. He got me an Atlanta Falcons build a bear a little over a year ago. I sleep with it every night   and sleep in one of his shirts. It helps me to sleep and to fill that void of him not being there. 

    Post # 91
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

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    @rachelmichelle:  ditto!

    I need a lot of space to sleep. Besides putting a pillow in between my legs I cant fall asleep if anything is touching me!

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