- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2009
Several years ago, my best friend was “Mark.” He wanted more, I didn’t. He’d ask me out, I’d say no, he’d get a little irritated for 1-2 months, then all would be fine. This happened three times, except after the third time, he got mad and hasn’t talked to me since. Shortly after this, I met now-FH, and they met (I wasn’t there), and he told FH lots of not-nice things about me trying to get us to break up. He eventually met someone, and I figured this would solve things- wrong! We are in the same church group and have a few mutual friends. Everytime I went to a church event, he would send me an email saying I shouldn’t come. He even threatened to tell the whole group some very personal things I had told him while we were friends. I let this bother me WAY too much. A mutual friend told him to stop emailing me, and he did. He recently got married. I met his wife twice at church events about 1.5 years ago, shortly after they got together, and we had short but pleasant chats.
I planned a church group event for this weekend, about 30 miles away. We met at church and car-pooled, and as we were about to leave, one of the people spotted Mark, and wanted us to go talk to him, so we did. I hung in the back and didn’t say anything. One of the people who is friends with his wife commented that she seemed super mad that we came up to them (I thought so but don’t know her enough to know for sure myself). It is super odd that they would go separately to this event on the same night the church group was (I am positive they knew about it). Am I reading too much into this? This whole situation really irks me, so I am not objective- please tell me what your interpretation is. Thanks for reading!