(Closed) Please give me your honest opinion….It’s getting frustrating!!! Bit Long

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Is it possible that the reason you’re feeling so hesitant to have a wedding is because of how everyone is making you feel? I know that if I were trying to plan a wedding, and everyone else kept knocking me down becuase of it, it’d be really easy to lose enthusiasm and just feel like eloping (not that there’s anythign wrong with that!).

However, if you do decide to have a wedding, I think the fact that you’re marrying the man of your dreams will outweigh any of the naysayers–and that even if people have been rude in the past, they’ll at least keep quiet on your wedding day, when they see how happy you are. And if not? Screw ’em.

I think the main thing you need to do is narrow down why you’re feeling so hesitant. If you think it’s because of what people are saying, try to envision what *you* want–  however, if you want just a simple courthouse wedding, you should sit down and talk with your fiance, and share how you’re feeling about the wedding. Maybe you two can find a compromise? Good luck!

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