(Closed) Please Help!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
3471 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

I would send the invite and see what kind of reception you have– if they are the way he remembers, great– if they’re not, there’s no harm to him.  What about work friends? 

Post # 4
597 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@ashasmith:  It may sound weird but totally send one, and if they come awesome, if they decline just don’t say anything. 

But tell him its HIS family too now! 😀 

Best of luck! 

Post # 6
771 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@ashasmith:  I’m going to have to disagree – I think it’s his choice who he wants to invite from his side.  I understand the idea of inviting them w/o his knowledge but it’s still dishonest (despite very good intentions – don’t get me wrong – I’m not being snarky).  Just trying to look at this from his perspective…

Post # 7
3305 posts
Sugar bee

I would talk to him about it. Let him decide what to do.


Post # 8
8727 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

But he does have a family- your family. Sometimes it is the family you pick and not born into that is truly your family.

Post # 9
1239 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I would ask him as if they do respond and turn up it will be a big shock and sometimes people dont like these kind of surprises.  Maybe you could contact them for him(if he wants you too) not about the engagment but in a general way, then if it works out invite them.  It might be best to meet them before the engagement not at it.

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