(Closed) Please help

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@foolishgirl:  We all make mistakes.  You’re still a good person.  One mistake doesn’t change that.  Life has its ups and downs.  Things always get better eventually.  Hang in there. Forget that guy and move on.  Spend time with family and friends and forget guys for a bit.

Post # 4
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Worker bee

Divcore him!!! You are trap in this situation and it sounds like he is using you! 

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

I’m going to admit that took a little bit to understand… Since I have no idea what the laws and cultural traditions are where you’re from, forgive me if I mess something up. 

I think this guy sounds like no good. Divorce him. Get an annulment. Leave him. Whatever is an actual option. You deserve to be with a man who loves you and is proud of having you as his wife. 

Post # 6
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Worker bee

@mepayne: she comes from hindu family. This is hindu regilious has a law and cultural traditions. I find it very unbelieveable by what she did. 

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

@sweetkari85:  I sort of got that part. I just don’t know enough about the religion/culture. What do you find unbelievable?

Post # 9
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Worker bee

@foolishgirl: I think you need to tell your parents about what happened to you becuase you are in complicate situation. You need their support to get you out of marriage.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

@sweetkari85:  Agreed. Your parents can help you in ways no one else can. 

Post # 15
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@foolishgirl:  Please do not harm yourself!! 

Please get help from someone there who can point you in a healthy direction – a doctor or professional counselor or someone who cares for you.

I wish you all the best.

Post # 16
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Worker bee

@foolishgirl:  You are teacher!! You need to be strong and have strong mind! Do you want to affect the student by how you acting or thinking?? I am student studying in 2nd year to be a teacher. I think you need to speak up.and tell your parents. STOP hurting and abusing yourself.  

You have proof is you met him through the interent then meet him in a person. both of you did that and you force him to marry you!! That is crazy you shouldnt have done that!! Now you are learning the hard time. You learnt the fact he is married man and you didnt know that.. so that is your proof, get the laywer and divcorce him!!! You are like his mistresss!! 

Now you stop contact him and stop going online to talk to him. Remember not every guys are like this. You met wrong guy and you did not think straight. You need to go to counsellor and talk about it. He or she will help you to make you feel better and healhly and help you to get divcorce. 

There is nothing for you to be afraid of. You need to stand up and do it this is for your life sake. I am indian too i do not do like this but help you to see the light and make you to understand there is a life for you to do whatever you want.. you will meet an amzing man. So do it. You see all ladies post on this wall.. they want you to get out of it and see counsellor to make yourself better and strong woman. 

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