(Closed) Please help!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2385 posts
Buzzing bee

I would go into it without expectations, then be pleasantly surprised if something happens. You’re drive yourself crazy wondering. 

With regard to the time, I think that 4 months is a short amount of time, but you have to do what’s right for you, and I do think that shorter courtships are more accepted when you’re a little bit older. If it makes YOU uncomfortable, but you don’t want to turn him down, just have a long engagement! There’s no shame in that. 

Post # 4
513 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I got engaged 5 mos after dating my Fiance, but previous poster is correct, do not go into it thinking “oh this is it.” Just relax and enjoy the ride. (Easier said than done) The worst thing you can do that early on is to nake him feel  pressured, ya know?

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