(Closed) Please Help!!! Big mess!

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
180 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

I think announcements are sent after the wedding, if you send them before, people would get confused that they’re actually invited, I think!  Are you drawing “lines” as to who is invited in terms of familial relationship? (only aunt/uncles, or first cousins only?)  If you are just picking and choosing based on who your Fiance likes, I think it’s going to be very tough not to piss people off unfortunately.

Post # 4
5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

i think if you were to contact the family members that will not be invited – you are going to create confusion

i would be speaking to the person that talks to both sides of the family and start saying “small and intimate with very little room for big numbers” alot – start getting the message across that not everyone will be invited

im guessing you are going to get comments at some point – this happens is most weddings and seems unavoidable im afraid


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