posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

umm your wedding is TOO close to for her to be acting this way..seriously. i would call her and leave a vm and let her know that if you dont hear from her in a a day or 2 you will consider her out of the wedding. size 0 can be let out to a size 2 at the most…

just try not to stress and enjoy your day!

Post # 4
46672 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

If you don’t want her in the wedding party, ask her to step down.

You don’t have to replace her. It is ok to have uneven numbers in the wedding party.

Post # 5
137 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I say leave her out of it… if you don’t want her in it anymore, why keep her? it’s YOUR day… don’t feel bad about it… but of course, talk to your fiance about it…

And don’t worry about the dress… you can just sell it or something… finding someone else to replace her isn’t the best idea in my opinion… your bridesmaid should be someone special to you, not just somebody else to replace another bridesmaid…know what i mean? UNLESS… the person replacing her is someone special to you….

Post # 6
2981 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

It’s SO frustrating when someone who you ask to stand up with you on your wedding day comes across as if they could care less- believe me. I just had my Maid/Matron of Honor step down on me last night after months of treating me indifferently and bad behavior at the bachleorette party/constant fighting with another bridesmaid. Our best man is MIA and FIs bach party is supposed to be this weekend- at this point I don’t think he even has his tux rented and the wedding is in 20 days. It sounds like you and I recruited the same people to be in our weddings. I’ll tell you what I tell myself- you are getting married come hell or high water. Don’t let anyone ruin your day. If they want to be there, they will pull thru. The hell with them if they don’t.

Post # 7
45 posts
  • Wedding: October 2011

Havign the same problem (although I have 3 months left)  I’ve come to terms with thefact that she’s basically going to back out at the last minute.  I’ve emailed her religiously and she rarely responds, she barely responds to my texts.  She still hasn’t bought her dress…that was pretty much my hint that she wasn’t going to be in the wedding

Post # 8
1690 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

isnt this the same thread as  ”shall i fire my bridesmaid’ ? 

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