(Closed) Please help! Bridesmaid/MOH drama:( long.

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2053 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@j4r: It would not be you losing her over her not being Maid/Matron of Honor, it is she who would lose you due to her immaturity. She is the one being rude, not you. She is making this about her, about what she knew or didn’t know, when she knew it, how she was told, and went so far as to assume she’d be Maid/Matron of Honor without giving you the chance to ask her, as is your right. She is completely missing the point that this is about celebrating you, your love and your upcoming marriage — NOT about her. If she can’t put her jealousy and manipulativeness and selfishness aside, she certainly doesn’t deserve a place of honor beside you, be it as Maid/Matron of Honor or even bridesmaid. I would contact her asap (don’t let her drag this out and therefore, drag you down!) and ask her to please respond via face-to-face or phone call, no text or email. Tell her you’re upset with her behavior, assumptions and ignoring you. Then, put the decision to her: if she can be there for you and support you for your wedding with a smile and grace, great. If she’s going to have a sour puss the whole time and be miserable, she can step down as a bridesmaid. (*It sounds like you chose the right person as your Maid/Matron of Honor.)

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