please help I cant stop fantasizing about cheating on my fiance with my friend

posted 5 months ago in Emotional
Post # 76
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Newbee
  • Wedding: February 2020

I’ve been through this before. And I’ve found that I was never attracted to the person, it’s just I wanted some sexual excitement. I applaud you for not cheating, not many people have that self control. I would recommend spicing things up with your fiance for sure. It really just sounds like you desire the passion that you had when you and your fiance first met. He’s still the same person, but you’ve gotten a little used to how things are. I’m speaking from experience. You’re not the only one. You’re not a bad person.

Post # 77
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

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megm1099 :  hmmm I dunno… I once had a fling with a guy who I had lots of issues with… values, morals, addiction….all of the things. I would have been mortified to introduce him to my family, but I would say that the attraction was almost impossible to pull myself away from. It definitely can happen. It’s not WISE, but it’s possible. 

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