(Closed) PLEASE help. I need guidance..desperately.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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3364 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Cut her off and out! I’m sorry for her drama!

 

Post # 4
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151 posts
Blushing bee

This is terrible 🙁  I’m sorry your cousin treated you this way.  However, she seems like she’s probably not that intelligent (or just drunk? either way…) so please don’t take what she says to heart and don’t let it get you down.  There is nothing wrong with going to school full time, you are not a loser, and I’m sure your mom and sister love you very much.

People are just mean sometimes, and it’s not right.

Post # 5
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263 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

To hell with them.  If your nutso aunt and her other family members aren’t going to support you 100% on your wedding day and be happy for you then they shouldn’t be there.  Save yourself the money and potential drama and cut them out! 

I’m so sorry you are having to deal with this!  How horrible.

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Wow!! I can’t believe that a 40 year old would right like that, did she go to school at all?? It was hard to follow since the entire paragraph was a run on sentence!

I agree, you need to not invite any of them. You don’t need the drama at your wedding, especially if you have alcohol!!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

She’s 40?  I didn’t know people older than 18 used text speak in emails.  And a period, comma…heck, I’d settle for a semi-colon or an exclamation point…whoa.

Anyway, I wouldn’t write back.  You don’t have to associate with people simply because they are family.  Are they friendly to you?  Or, do they abuse you and make you feel horrible?  If it’s the latter, then move on.  Seriously.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

This bitch is forty? I’m sorry, after about five lines of horrible grammar, she lost automatically.

Her method of expression is very juvenile and small-minded and unfortunately if she’s like this at forty, that will never change.

I wouldn’t want her at my wedding knowing she’s sour over some preconceived ideas about you.

It seems like maybe you are getting financial support for the wedding and she is jealous? Maybe she never received that kind of support. Either way, it’s none of her business and she can go shave her back now.

 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

You know, I didn’t even read her note to you in full. Not worth the time. She is being the ass by being so rude to you and speaking WAY out of turn. It is not her responsibility to school you; how dare she attempt. Cut her off. As for anyone else that listens to her, their fate in this situation is up to them individually. FOLLOW YOUR GUT INSTINCTS. If there is an inkling of doubt in your mind and heart in inviting ANYONE to your wedding, DON’T. Hang in there, sister.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

pahahahah I’m sorry. You can’t do anything else at this situation then laugh. Don’t reply. Delete her from your facebook. It’s up to you to cut her from the guest list (I would) and good luck to you! 

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

wow, that is PAthetic grammer. I could barely read it it was so awful. Sorry for the drama this seemingly very immature 40 year old has caused you. I think maybe shes jealous? or just crazy?

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Uninvite them – a wedding is supposed to be a place full of love, and clearly there is nothing coming from her end.

You said she was drunk? Good, because otherwise I would have to say that she might want to retake 2nd grade and learn how to spell?

Post # 13
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93 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

and yea, if shes going to stress you out the day of, or be drunk then, maybe it would be best not have her there.

Post # 14
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2233 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would not have known that a 40 year old wrote this if you hadn’t pointed that out. 

I would say cut her from the guest list. You only want people at your wedding who support you and your Fiance. 

Post # 15
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

good grief!  send her a voucher to use full stops, sheesh im having trouble believing a a 40yr woman is using text typing like that

I would respond “well youre entitled to your opinion so i will take your email as your rsvp not to attend our wedding” and leave it at that.

and if she tries to biotch, blackmail or show up i would forward her drunken rage to others so they can see what a bitch she is

 

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