(Closed) Please help!! Licence issue!

posted 5 years ago in Rhode Island
Post # 3
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3778 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@beatrix14:  I think your best bet is to just come clean to you mother…

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Lying takes ten times the amount of effort as telling the truth does.

If you don’t want to come clean, say you signed and sent it in at the courthouse. That’s what we had to do, there was no “signing and sending in” at the wedding because that was already done. My husband and I signed it the week beforehand and all the officiant had to do was plop down his info. No one saw the license at our wedding.

I’d just come clean. It’s easier in the long run.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2008

First off, the lady who told you to fraudulently reproduce a legal document needs to be fired immediately. What she’s advising you to do can potentially get you arrested.

 

Second, it’s time for you to be a big girl and be honest with your family. Save yourself the potential embarrassment of presenting something that will probably obviously be a fraud because you won’t be able to reproduce paper weight, official seals, etc. If you’re old enough to get married, you’re old enough to tell your family you’ve already done it and are just having a ceremony.

 

For the record, THIS is what most brides have a problem with when they advise people not to have a “wedding” after you’ve already been married and not tell anyone. What you’re basically trying to do is deceive your whole family and I don’t know how you can sleep with yourself  even considering doing what you want to do.

 

Just be honest. It’s not going to kill you and your family isn’t going to love you any less

 

I’m not sure when honestly in this world became a bad thing

Post # 6
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1186 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Hold on.  The state in which you married already — was that Rhode island?

If not, I have a feeling the lady meant you should get an actual Rhode island license.

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2013

If your uncle is officiating the ceremony he would be the one sending in to the town you got the licence from. That presents a problem not just the witnesses signing it.

Although blushing bee was alittle hash you should come clean

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