(Closed) Please help me… advice needed :( :( ASAP

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@redroses23:  immediately block both of them and don’t give it a second thought – it sounds like middle school.

Post # 6
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2012

You need some big guys with cool heads armed with pictures of this guy who can quickly stand in his way and escort him off the premises

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

this is odd behaviour….

Delete/block them.

Let the venue know about his potential crashing, they will take care of it.

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

So you dont actually have a friendship with this person (the mom of the little girl?)  If the relationship is only that you son and the little girl are school friends then i wouldnt have asked the little girl to be your flowergirl to be honest

Block the crazy boyfriend and tell the mom his behaviour is inappropriate – if she pulls her daughter from the Flower Girl gig then thats a blessing

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@redroses23:  he probably won’t crash your wedding. He’s saying things to get a reaction out of you, so once he realizes he’s blocked, this will probably stop.  If it doesn’t, call the police. Either way, responding in ANY way is just a step down to his level or encouragement for his behavior.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

Report him to facebook as an abuser if it meets those terms. Add security type people who will not let him in. 

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Damn he sounds crazy – print his photo and have a few people at the door and yes, i would uninvite the woman, even if it breaks the little girls heart because shes the source of the drama. Sorry, no easy answer im afraid

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

She must’ve told him you said some pretty nasty things to get an adult male angry enough to post on FB about not being uninvited to a wedding of someone he doesn’t really know.

I’d approach her and say, “I’m not sure what you told crazyguy, but he is now harassing me on FB and threatening to crash my wedding which I find interesting since I never invited him to begin with.  Considering the circumstances, your daughter can keep the dress, but I don’t need her to be a member of the wedding party anymore and would not be upset if you decided not to attend.”

ETA: if you’re honestly afraid he would crash (and I don’t blame you), consider going down to the local police station and ask what your options are and make sure your family members are aware of the situation and what he looks like.

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