(Closed) Please help me end the late night cry-fests over my dress regrets!

posted 5 years ago in Dress
  • poll: With or Without Straps????
    With Straps : (185 votes)
    48 %
    Without Straps : (197 votes)
    52 %
  • Post # 3
    2854 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Question: Has the dress got enough boning in it for it to stay up without straps?

    Also, do you have any full-length photos of you in the dress? I’d like to see them before deciding.


    Post # 4
    25 posts
    • Wedding: December 2014

    @MsNewton:  You look fantastic in both pictures, but if you are feeling overwhelmed by the dress- go for the strapless option for sure!

    Post # 5
    12247 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2013

    First off: That dress is GORGEOUS!

    Second: Make it detachable, and wear it for the ceremony/pictures and take it off for the reception!

    Post # 6
    58 posts
    Worker bee

    What are you planning on doing with your hair, make up, veil, and jewelry?  I think that will determine, for me, whether it would look better with or without.  Its a gorgeous dress!

    Post # 7
    76 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Can you do both? are the straps detachable? straps for ceremony and without for reception?

    The dress is gorgeous, By The Way.

    Post # 8
    2625 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Beautiful dress! I love the straps!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



    That is great idea! Make to make the straps detachable!




    Post # 9
    877 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013 - A Beautiful converted Barn

    keep the straps – they are beautiful and make your dress look gorgeous!!

    Post # 10
    195 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Without straps looks more youthful imo, but there are alot of other factors to consider!! hair, beliefs, venue etc etc etc. the idea of making the dress dual purpose is a great idea 🙂

    Post # 11
    2971 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Strapless vote from me! It opens it all up and I look at your face first and then notice that your dress is beautiful. Strapless would allow you to wear a veil and jewelery without being overwhelmed by ‘stuff’. I don’t think you should have dress regret, it’s gorgeous! I’d love to see a full length picture. 

    Post # 12
    1938 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    I think most of the salon dress pics highlight the dress and not the person. its much different on the big day when you have hair, makeup and accessories.


    that said, I like the dress both ways and can also imagine putting a smaller, more delicate lace strap on it if you are feeling swallowed up by those. But I also want to reiterate that was not my thought when I saw the pic. You just gotta feel great! 

    Post # 13
    384 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I voted with straps, but I’m a straps kind of gal. Either way, that dress looks amazing on you!

    Post # 14
    8692 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I personally prefer it without the straps as my eye immediately goes to your face. With the straps, I’m more drawn to look at the busy pattern instead of you. It’s a gorgeous dress either way though!


    Post # 15
    1221 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    You’ve chosen a beautiful dress! I like it without the straps as it allows you to be the focal point. 

    Post # 16
    499 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    That dress is beautiful, I feel like it does have a lot going on with the straps but looks absolutely gorgeous on you without the straps. I definitely vote no straps.

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