(Closed) Please help me. He saw his Ex.

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 362
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Just wanted to chime in to say how awesome it is that you left him and just to try take care of yourself. You do sound very depressed and you shouldn’t hesitate to maybe talk to someone if you think it would help? Just try to be good to yourself. It sounds like you had an awesome time at the lake so maybe when your friends ask you to go out, ask to go there instead. Hugs to you. 

Post # 363
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471 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@Bram:  It’s all still fresh and raw, and it’s going to be this way for awhile. Let yourself feel whatever you’re feeling, go out when you want to and stay in when you want to.  I wouldn’t call it social anxiety necessarily, it’s just a normal part of grieving such a major loss. It sounds like you’ve got a good group of friends around you, and you’re not alone.

You WILL get through it, day by day. BIG.HUGS.

Post # 364
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

You made the right decision… I also wouldn’t be able to get over it and let it go, and it would always haunt the back of my mind. Just force yourself to go out and keep your mind occupied… it’s the quickest way to heal your heart 🙁

Post # 365
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Bram thank you for the update, this post was lost in the millions of posts that I have commented on, but I have not forgotten about you!

Please know that we are here for support.  🙂 <3

Post # 366
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I just read through all 10 pages.  I know I’m late to the ordeal, but I think you are being so incredibly strong here.  You’ve said that the way you’ve reacted to this is uncharacteristic, and I”m so happy that you decide to leave before it starts changing who you are as a person for good.  Things will get better.  You will find someone who treats you the way you should be treated.  And in the meantime, being single is better than having an early heartattack from all the stress.  Wish you the best!  =)

Post # 367
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

Was thinking about you today, Bram…hope you’re doing well!

Post # 368
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I have read through a few pages of posts and while many women are supportive, I feel some comments have been made that are not positive, uplifting or even beneficial to the OP who is clearly hurting and confused. Which is why I learned to never post things while I’memotional, because it only makes me more confused and hurt. To the OP, if u need tochat, message me. I have and still am in a somewhat similar situation. Iam sorry u are hurting and hope u find peace in ur heart and someone who u can trust who is supportive with what we choice u make for ur relationship. Xo 

 

Disclaimer… I’m typing this on my phone incase the darn auto correct messed any of this up lol 

Post # 369
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@MissEMich:  Wow ok I’m an idiot.. This is a super old post lol hope your relationship worked out seeing how long ago u posted this. Oops! 

Post # 371
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Bram,

I can’t believe all this. You will get through it, I know. I hope it gets better and better everyday until you are ready to find someone who will respect and cherish you.

Post # 373
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

good for you! that’s amazing!  you are so strong.  i’m very proud of you.

can i ask how ex has behaved since the split?

Post # 374
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Bram:  Thank you for the updates! I’m glad you had a nice dinner with friends and a man whos second nature is to pull out chair and pay for dinner!

Post # 376
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@Bram:  You sound like you’re doing much better and you definitely sound done with this relationship.  I’m happy for you.  =)

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