- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
A while back I made a post about not feeling anything durning sex. I thought I would keep trying, but I am miserable and back again. I can’t really talk about this with anyone I know, so please help.
As mentioned in another post, I was a virgin until we were married, which was a couple months ago. But sex doesnt feel good. It doesn’t hurt anymore, but I don’t feel anything. Like it really just feels like a penis in and out.
Oral is meh. Sometimes I get to the point where “that was nice”, but it wasn’t anything special. It is very light. Don’t know if thats an orgasm…. becuase it is so weak.
But the problem is is that I have absolute no interest. When I started BC, I was okay, and noticed my sex drive was normal, but when I got married, it plummetted. I have zero interest in sex anyway.
I’m thinking of switching BC’s, but unsure if that is what the problem is, and don’t want to go through all that for nothing. If your BC killed your sex drive, you would not be interested in the beggning, but once you got going you would right?
Even when we start, I’m not grooving. After, I am super upset that I am a freak. If I go to a doctor, he is a dumbass, and won’t help me at all.
I was thinking of going off BC, but unsure, becuase I have about 2 years of school left, and Fiance is on some crazy drugs for a medical condition that would make having a baby now a huge medical risk. So I am not sure I can trust condoms.
Some suggested masturbation… I have no interest for that, and don’t get off from that either.
I think after a couple months, we would figure it out, but nope.
Anyway, sorry this is all over the place.