(Closed) Please help me not be annoyed, pissed, or anxious about FI…

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1403 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m sure your Fiance isn’t intentionally forgetting about you.  As soon as you hear his explanation, it’ll all be better.  LOL that’s how it always goes for me at least!

Sounds like a distraction is in order tonight.  Good thing you have WeddingBee!  😉

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think it’s always harder being the one at home and waiting, rather than the one traveling and doing more exciting things.  It’s like your life is going on as before only a bit more lonely, whereas his life is a lot more busy.  does that make sense?

I would probably feel just as you do, but im sure he wasnt intentionally ignoring you.  Things just come up.

Post # 6
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9824 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

It’s easy to magnify the “Why hasn’t he called” feeling when you’re bored and your mind starts wandering. I’m sure it’s not anything intentional. Just relax and enjoy time to yourself, maybe go to a movie he wouldn’t want to go see, or something like that?

Post # 8
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767 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I know how you feel, FH works away from home M-F and it’s VERY annoying sometimes.  I generally try and distract myself, take the dog for a walk, watch a movie, etc.  In the end, he’s there for work, so it’s not like he’s on a holiday…

Stay positive hun 🙂

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Aw, I know how you feel.  I’m sure hes just caught up in things there and just hasn’t been able to contact you yet.  I think looking for a movie he’d never watch is a great idea – crack open a bottle of wine and enjoy the you time!  And dont worry, he’ll be coming home soon!!

Post # 12
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1403 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Yay for chick flicks!  Enjoy them while you still can lol…

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

@KatNYC2011: Guinness works!!  I haven’t seen that one yet, but it looked awesomely bad when I saw the previews.

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Alcohol makes any movie better I think.

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