(Closed) Please help me prioritize my wedding checklist–feeling rushed!

posted 6 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
4150 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@violet25:  Guest list is definitely the first thing because everything relies on that.  Then, I would work on booking vendors – so, your officiant, photographer and videographer.  Registry can wait until a few months before the wedding.  The invitaitons don’t need to be ordered until 4 months or so before the wedding.  You should start thinking about wedding bands 4-6 months out.  Hope this helps.  Don’t stress – you have PLENTY of time.  Enjoy it!

Post # 4
2253 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Are you guys going to have a bridal party? If so, you and Fiance need to select who will be serving and what attire they need.

Decorations for the ceremony and reception, if you want.

Depending on the state you are in, you need to order marriage certificate within a certain time frame to make sure it comes in time and stays valid for your wedding.

Buy your wedding dress??!!


Post # 5
4352 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@violet25: Guest list always comes first. Make a list of the names and then divide it up between your mother, your Future Mother-In-Law, your Fiance and yourself to find addresses.

Invitations don’t need to go out until about 3 months until the wedding, so you don’t need to order them much earlier than that. So you can put that towards the bottom of your list.

The knot has a great timeline. You can add and subtract events from and “assign” tasks to various people, so that you know which things you have to stay on top of and which items other people are taking care of. http://planning.theknot.com/wedding-checklist/due-date

Post # 8
1629 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

In order of priority from DO IT NOW to It Can Wait
guest list (compile & finalize)



select/order invitations


get wedding bands

The other stuff I don’t really know/care about so much.

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