(Closed) please help me..i am from mumbai

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
399 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I understand your frustration in thinking that you are sleeping with somebody out of love and then they turn around and hurt you. If you see that sleeping with these two guys have turned out to be nothing but lies then stop sleeping with boyfriends cause you are going ot hurt yourself more emotionally. Its always good to be honest from the beginning with the man you decide to marry one day. It would hurt him later if you hid that from him and him thinking you saved yourself for him till you r wedding day and that not be the truth. There are men that will love you no matter if you are virgin or not on your wedding day. Love is not only about sex and if you are a virgin or not its about who you are from the inside on out.

Post # 5
696 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@priya137:  I am very sorry for what happened to you ๐Ÿ™ but like rickangen81 said, just be honest and a wonderful man who will love you for who you are will eventually come along. Just dont let it get you down, we have all been in a similar situation im sure, but in the end it will work itself out.

Post # 6
2607 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Just because you’ve been sexually active in the past with boyfriends, does not mean you have to continue.  You can date on your own without sleeping with the man, or you  can approach your parents or a matchmaker if you want to go the more traditional route and have them help you meet someone, and save lovemaking for your wedding night if you wish.  

You must be honest with any man you intend to marry though, and tell him that you are no longer a virgin, before he proposes.  But don’t worry too much about that, because you have nothing to be ashamed of. You are obviously a modern woman, and you want to marry a modern man, who will not pass any negative judgements on your past, but will love you for who you are now.

Good luck!  And welcome to our community! ๐Ÿ™‚ 

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