(Closed) please help!! My heart is breaking

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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7199 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

bellabee3477:  Is it possible she left the earrings at his house while she was here? Or maybe he was doing her a favor? The fact that there were earrings valued at $500 in the package doesn’t mean that he PAID $500 for earrings for her? 

I wouldn’t jump to conclusions. I’d ask him, calmly and without accusation, what the package was. Keep in mind that even if he was trying to woo her or something, it was a year ago. While that would suck, he’s obviously stayed with you and decided on you. 

Post # 4
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9525 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Best to talk to him -calmly- and clear it up. It could have a simple explanation 

Post # 5
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84 posts
Worker bee

Yeah I had the same thought. Even if she wasn’t in your city specifically, some of her things could’ve been mixed up with his & got moved to the current address with all the other stuff.

Give him a chance to explain.

Post # 7
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1 posts
Wannabee
  • Wedding: June 2013

So sorry you feel this way. 🙁 Praying it’s not waht you think it is.

Post # 8
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9089 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

I dunno. I wouldn’t jump to conclusions. Maybe she had given them to him for some reason, or left them somewhere when they were together and he was sending them back.

Post # 10
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3829 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Were you actually snooping? I just find it so odd that a year old receipt was laying in front of the closet randomly. All you can do it talk to him. Maybe they were still friendly after she left and she had him purchase it for her. the only way you can find out is to ask, and make sure you don’t accuse him or cheating Right away. it might not be what you think. 

Post # 12
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11181 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

It sounds as if your intuition is giving you a pretty clear signal.  I would go with that.

I think you need to talk to him asap. 

I am very sorry, Bee.

Post # 13
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310 posts
Helper bee

bellabee3477:  I’m so sorry you are going through this.  take deep breaths, stay calm until you can talk to him.  Approach him calmly and figure out what’s going on.  Don’t think too far ahead yet.  big hug.  we are here for you.

Post # 14
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543 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I think your over reacting. My husband still has a couple things of his ex’s… 

Just talk to him. Maybe he was cleaning up and found them. Thought you would get upset (hence the ushering you out of the room)and decided its time to send them on to her now that he has moved on… 

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

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bellabee3477:  I think it’s time you confronted him. You deserve to have an open and honest conversation with him. If you guys are really meant to be, then I’m sure he has a good explanation for this…try to be calm til there is a valid reason for you to feel he’s a cheater…good luck

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