(Closed) Please help. Should we change everything?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Well, are those people who are able to attend your wedding able to attend it if it’s in November?

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Have you discussed this with your FI? How does he feel about that potential plan?

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Sounds like a go to me.  I’d do November if I were you.  It seems like that’s what’s in your heart anyway, no need to force the more traditional wedding if its not what you truly want.  As long as your Fiance is ok with it, and both sets of parents, then I think the low key wedding sounds FAB (kinda wish I had considered it myself in fact).

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I think you should have the talk with the Fiance and if he’s on board with it…GO FOR IT!

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

If you have your talks with Fiance and the parents and everyone is in agreement, then go for it!

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I would move it up, if it were me. Looking back after the long engagement we had, I would almost recommend having the wedding sooner rather than later, and in your situation, it seems perfect.

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Go for it!!

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I think the new plan sounds good, more like you, and it would be better, financially. But sometimes we get all excited for something and don’t see the possible downfalls. Wait until you can talk to your Fiance about the new plan before planning much further in your head just in case he would have valid concerns (which seems unlikely since it’s a simpler plan and it sounds like something a guy would like, but you never know)

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - New York Botanical Garden

@stephinPA: I totally agree! If Fiance agrees, I would totally go for it!

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Sorry! I guess the honeymoon thing is a valid point. Don’t be mad at him though… When he comes back, weigh in all the pros and cons together and see what’s best..

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