(Closed) Please, I need some advice. I don’t want the wedding…

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
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Honey bee

I kind of understand what you mean. But it sounds like you are inviting family and just very close friends. So why would they think bad about you?

If you and your future husband dont want a wedding, theres nothing wrong with that. What about eloping?

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Your wedding shouldn’t be about proving anything- it’s about committing yourselves to each other, and celebrating that.  Everyone is different, and every wedding is different.  What matters is that YOU enjoy it.  Your food sounds good too, btw.  People like “comfort” food!

I don’t mean to be mean, but it seems odd to me that someone would be the “pride” of the family just because they got married young.  What’s the reasoning behind that?  It should be more important that you’re in love, not how old you are!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

(sorry, double post…)

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

It seems to me that you are the one placing all the doubt on the wedding.  And I don’t understand the “pride” of the family being married at 19 and you are 20.

Don’t compare yourself to others is the number one thing.  And if you don’t want to invite all those people…just use your venue to elope!  Just have yourself and your fiance and if you want any family that you think will respect your marriage there.

Post # 10
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I agree with Ambrocked. You don’t have to prove a damn thing to anyone. If your friends and family are going to judge you for this, then they have their ownn issues and you definitely don’t need to make them your issues too. Do your wedding your way and if anyone tries to give you a hard time, just smile sweetly and tell them that you’re quite happy with everything and that the most important thing is the love you and your fiance share. If that doesn’t shut them up, keep smiling and walk away. Don’t let the haters bring you down!

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@fadeastride: exactly!!  =)

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