(Closed) Please, leave me out of this! Ughh

posted 7 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 33
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

“tell her you’re uncomfortable with this and she can talk to your mom about it herself.  Tell her you’re not getting involved.  Period.”

THIS.

Post # 34
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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@MrsEdamame:  Grr. I would flat out tell her that it’s illegal to give her your mother’s SSN without her consent.

Post # 35
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718 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Sounds like some of the Xyng sellers I’ve seen. I wouldn’t give her SSN for any reason unless mom OK’s it herself.

Post # 36
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Newbee
  • Wedding: January 2006

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@MrsEdamame:  how old is your mom?

Post # 37
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - B&B

stick to your guns!!! your sister might be pissed about it now but honestly you are probably saving her from getting into some type of trouble.  I would reiterate what a PP suggested, just tell her you’re not getting in the middle and she has to go directly to her mom for this.

Post # 38
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1953 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Good on you for sticking to your guns on this one, and having your mum’s back. That is shady as, and there is absolutely no way in hell I would allow that.

Post # 39
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - NH

Call your mother.  I’d also tell my sister to stop being so shady and desperate as to try to sign your mother up with her information without having the decency to ask her for the information and her consent.

Post # 40
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Why are you letting yourself be involved in this? Tell her to contact your mom if she wants information from her. Don’t enable her shady, unethical doings. And yes, it very possibly is illegal.

As an aside, I never buy any of those crappy products. I hate how sellers try to guilt people into buying them and becoming part of their stupid scheme. Get a real job and leave me the hell alone.

Post # 41
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3637 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I don’t want to get too dramatic here, but just in case, I would be keeping those texts messages and emails.

Post # 42
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Look – I know this is uncomfortable but it’s time to put on your big girl panties and tell her you’re not interested. She’s obviously not going to go away.  So you can either do something about it….or continue to complain.

Post # 43
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Yeah, I would just tell her you are not comfortable with her signing your mom up for this without her knowledge and are not going to help her. If she wants the info she can ask your mom for it. I would also tell your mom what’s up in case she makes up some sort of fake reason she needs the info. this is not okay.

Post # 44
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@MrsEdamame:  Sorry this whole situation is awful! Any updates? Have you told your mom?

Post # 45
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

I’d be very clear and text back: NO, I’M NOT GOING TO SEND IT TO YOU, SHADY Mc SHADERSON!

 

Post # 46
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

She can pester all she wants, she’s essentially asking you to steal your moms identity for her personal gain. I mean, I’ve never been in a situation where someones asked me to hand over someone elses SIN…. because its NOT normal and possibly illegal. 

I’d redirect her to your mom.. Clearly there’s something fishy going on when she can’t ask her own mother for something. Firmly tell her you won’t do it.. I have no idea why that’s difficult.

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