- 7 years ago
I think I really need a good smack upside on the head with sensible thoughts. And hope all the bees here can offer me the words of wisdom and sensiblity. Or to have someone tell me, “Stop it, you gluttenous girl. Stop being so irrational and be happy with what you have! Sshessh. #First world’s problems”
I just got my engagement ring last week (precisely just a week and 2 days ago). It’s an absolutely beautiful ring, in fact my fiance let me design it. It’s perfect in every way and just as I wanted it to be. I designed it with a 2ct/8mm FB moissanite center stone from MCo. Since the second day wearing I started having thoughts about how much better it would be if I had chosen to have a 3ct…(::gulp::) … and the greedy thoughts have been built up in this past week. I found out that the price difference between 3ct and a 2ct moissanite is only $220. Without a doubt this is absolutely terrible of me to change the ring that my fiance got for me (mostlikely it would also have to be done without him knowing)
I started to have regrets of my 2ct. I can’t stop thinking how a 3ct would look on my finger EVERYTIME I look at my current ring. It’s a terrible thought! I should be extremely grateful for the lovely ring he got for me. I feel like a sinful Catholic girl, who is going into confession of her guilty feelings.
Would you kindly advise me what I should do or how I can stop thinking/wishing for something just out of greed? I’d appreciate any words of wisdom.
Greedy for 3ct