Post # 1
I thought the next post I would write would be a happy one. But that is not the case. As you know I’ve been on the waiting list for my bf to propose. He was the one who told me by the end of the year which would have been 2010. I waited adn waited and nothing happened. We had a talk/argument this past weekend. He was disappointed with himself for it not happening. He says he still wants to marry me. he wants more time. I feel disapointed, hurt and confused. I want to be off the list b/c i am no longer waiting. I am unsure of where we are headed. I am unsure if i want to still be with him. Then i had that momen of relaiztion. Following through is not his strong point. I started to think of other moments and things in wich he didnt always do waht he said he was going to do-either school, family, work, not just with us. It would be a lot to write in detail all the discussions we have been having. But the point is that I have to rethink a lot and what I want and what is giong on now. I’m sad but not broken. But I’ve let go of all my wedding dreams for now, so its best I let go of the wedding bee to so I can just focus on me and possibly a new single life.
Love you ladies, and wish you all the best,
Post # 3
I am so sorry honey- much hugs to you *hugs*
Post # 4
Best wishes, and lots of luck to you, in whatever you decide to do. Follow your heart.
Post # 5
Seems like you had a tough time ridden with disappointment. I know its hard right now but you’ll feel better in a couple of days, especially when you figure out what your next move will be.
I think you’re making the best move, take a step back from all the engagement and wedding talk for a while and really take care of yourself and your sanity. I hope for your sake he gets his act together real soon, but if not I’m sure there is this great guy waiting for you at the end of all this who will be just as excited to marry you in a heartbeat. My only hope is you come right back to the hive and let us chronicle this.
Again hugs, and remember we’re right here whenever you need to talk, vent or let it out. You can most definitely pm me if you want, I can only imagine what you’re going through and how sad you must feel. But I’m confident that things will work out in the end, just wait and see.
Post # 6
non-committal traits in guys (common, if you look at the waiting boards!) can be the worst. when it rolls over into all aspects of his life, then you end up dealing with someone who’s all talk and no action. everyone has their faults but only you know if this guy’s good traits outweigh his bad. whatever you do, don’t settle or be with someone just to have someone to be with. all the best luck!
Post # 7
awwww (((HUGS))) i’m so sorry your going thru this, but it’s good sometimes to just take the pressure off and REALLY think about the relationship and what your willing to live with. I hope you figure out the best thing for yourself. good luck
Post # 8
@marietaylor: *major hugs* I’m so sorry, but it’s good that you realize this. Maybe you following through and moving on will get him to get his shit straight. I hope it works out for you.
Post # 9
(((marietaylor))) Just wanted to give a virtual hug!
Post # 10
***Hug**** I hope whatever you decide to do that it’s for you.
Post # 11
I hope everything works out for you *hugs*
Post # 12
wow i’m so sorry. you have to think about you and your happiness, and some other guy is out there to make you happy and marry you!