(Closed) please talk me off the ledge

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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3520 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

YES!  I came home today and Fi is in a terrible mood.  All I did was make dinner, sit through him being sulky, and now I’m on WB in my room.  It’s okay; sometimes you need to just act like you live apart from him. 

Now get in off that ledge–you’re letting all the cool air out!  You think I’m made of money that I can give AC to the whole neighborhood?  🙂

Post # 4
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

ugghhh!  my brother works in construction and i swear if my SIL didnt take care of everything that requires time and paperwork nothing would ever get done.   sadly the only thing that does seem to get him into gear is to very sternly (just short of yelling) tell him off. its tough if they dont have an office/access to phones & computers like an office worker so vent away

oh and is it a full moon because i was pretty short with hubby 2 days ago – told him i wasnt superwoman and he needed to step up because i have a lot of work stress at the moment while hes been sitting at home planning his day trips of europe while im in the euorpe office working – i told him i might leave him at home

Post # 6
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3798 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

My Fiance works in a job where it is hard to use the phone, too, so we sometimes fight if he is not able to get stuff done when he is supposed to. I have to constantly remind or text him throughout the day to ask if he did something when it’s important, and then he gets short with me. Keep nagging him. Eventually it will get through his brain that once he does it, you will stop nagging!

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I feel the exact same way right now.

Fiance and I bought our place in November of last year. We had our home inspection done, and found there are plumbing issues that Fiance said he’d have no problem fixing. We took possesion in January, so he said he wanted to wait until the weather warmed up, becuase he had to crawl around in the crawl space to fix it. It is now September- 9 months later and it’s still not done! I asked him again today when it would get done, after nagging him all summer, because we’re moving back into the cold months, and he said he can’t do it for at least a month because it’s hunting season!

I’m so livid right now, I want to scream! I don’t have any advice for you, just know that I sympathize with you, it can be so frustrating!

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