(Closed) pleaze pray for my fiancee and I :(

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2419 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Oh goodness. Do you have security cameras where the cash box is kept? If not, you may want to invest in some for the future. Also, file a police report ASAP.

Post # 4
3117 posts
Sugar bee

@Djacks88:  This is absolutely horrible and devastating. I am SO sorry…

Post # 5
14494 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Prayers going up. Im so sorry you all are having a rough time, hopefully everything is cleared up and back on the straight by the end of the day. 

Post # 6
1458 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Ouch. I hope your FH took all his information down so you can press charges. It was good that he tried to hire someone down on his luck, but as they say, no good deed goes unpunished. It’s also why bigger employers tend to run credit checks on their employees. Bad credit correlates to poor financial decisions and risky behavior, which then could lead to drastic choices to compensate, like stealing from the employer. I hope he gets it sorted out.

Post # 8
9549 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m confused. Do you think the nephew stole the money or the handy-man guy? And why is the nephew quitting? Regardless, I’ll say a little prayer for the whole group!

Post # 10
2765 posts
Sugar bee

You need to report all this to the police.  Make sure that you change all the locks so that he cannot steal anything from you again.  If you speak to him again make sure that you have witnesses or even tape the conversation on your mobile phone.  The police, of course, may advise you not to speak to him again.

I acknowledge that all this is terribly upsetting but you may have been stung relatively lightly.  He could have syphoned money away gradually leaving you to suspect everyone.  This would have been much more upsetting. Or he could have stolen tools and cars leaving you much more out of pocket. Or he could have turned up at work under the influence of drugs and caused a serious accident.

You gave him and chance and you were nice to him.  He through this back in your face.  It is hurtful and inexplicable but you have to put it behind you. 

Post # 11
67 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Oh im so sorry! I really hope everything is ok! 

Post # 13
4436 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Djacks88:  This is horrific- I’m so sorry you ate dealing with this:( This man is horrible and I hope something can be done to repay the money to you. There are awful people out there:(

Post # 14
874 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

((Hugs)) sorry you’re going through this…It’ll get better. He’ll get his..Karma’s a bitch!


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