Post # 46
I’m sorry I just realized that I left a 1 our of my poas date. It was supposed to be Jan 16!
Fertile window is in affect. I’m having high hopes as usual.
Post # 47
Whenever that happens, I get crushed to the point where I don’t want to try anymore. It first started when I was 21, 6 positive hpts but went in for a urine and a blood and they both came up negative. I just have to learn not to test around a holiday, so I can get in for a test at the clinic. Good luck to you!
Post # 48
Good luck, hopefully it’s first try charm again for you! Do you have identical or fraternal twins?
Oops, must have read too quickly. I’ll update with the change tmr. That sounds fun, I have to go out of area one day for snowboarding. We live in Maryland so there’s slopes within a 1-3 hour drive. The one we’re going to is in western Maryland that I never been before. Out of country friends just visited and they were talking about going to Bulgaria for skiing, I was jealous!
I hope that this is your month too!
You helped motivated me to start. We bought an elliptical during the Black Friday sale. Only used it once so far but now I will start slowly.
Post # 49
Ouch, chronic pain can be tough. I hope it works out for you.
I like your resolutions, sounds fun and I like the theme. Hopefully you’ll be the first BFP!
A BFP will be the best wedding present. It’s great that your cycle normalize so quickly.
FX for you this cycle!
Congrats on the new house, that’ll definitely keep you busy. Hopefully you’ll get a nice present on your b-day!
That’s horrible. You have it doubly worse when your body gives you false positives like that. Hopefully you’ll get your real positive soon, *hug*
This is our 12th cycle trying. It was definitely bad during this past late summer/fall where I would break down every cycle. But last month, I made peace with it and am letting it come when it will come. Positive energy and thoughts!
amberjayjay: Np! I’ll change it next update for tomorrow.
I got a positive OPK tonight but no temp rise yet. Ovulation should be coming soon I hope.
Post # 50
Wow, I’ve heard the opposite sometimes, where hpts won’t detect HCg in some women. So cruel. I hope that this month is the one!
I’m so glad that you are able to make peace with it all. That is my main focus, and even that is stressing me out because I can’t let go! Lose- lose situation. I hope Jan is our month, all of us! PS- my POAS will be Jan 2. 🙂
Post # 51
Your age/partner’s age: Both 31
Baby #: 1
Current Cycle Day/DPO: FF says CD 16/3 DPO
Ovulation Date: Christmas Day (supposedly. Never got a positive OPK)
POAS Date/Usual Cycle Length: Jan 7
Cycles Trying: 3
BFP Plan (BD timing, charting, prenatals, supplements, etc.):
This month we tried to BD every other day after my period because my cycle is still regulating after getting off the pill and seems to get shorter every month. we also used Preseed and Robitussin for more fertile CM. I am on a prenatal and he is taking a multivitamin too. We are charting and using OPKs I haven’t been able to get a positive this cycle or my last one so I am frustrated with that. I have tired to improve my diet this cycle and have been juicing as meals 3-4 days every week. We have been at my mother in law’s since the 24th and I am not feeling very confident about our chances this cycle although we supposedly hit our window already not sure I trust FF on this yet
Link to Chart, if any: http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5461a9/?full=1
Just for fun- What are your new year’s resolutions?: To get back into healthier eating habits and I think I am giving up OPKs. But that’s more of a frustration than a resolution
Post # 52
Thank you, just ready to start Clomid. Good luck to you ladies!
Post # 53
exactly!! It’s sooo frustrating! Christmas at my mom’s lastnight was so so frustrating! I told my hubby I needed to make sure I was holding a wine glass at all times so the question “so are you pregnant? Or when are you guys going to get pregnant??” I was so frustrated! We got married in June and we went on a 5 week honeymoon and I did jokingly say I was going to come back pregnant. . But we decided to wait until November rather then be in Mexico pregnant and not able to celebrate and drink.
So I can see why they were asking.. but it was still so hard.
This Past FW went alot better then last cycle. Lot less pressure to BD. Was alot more relaxed approach and I liked it. I’m hoping that I can see in my chart soon that I did in fact O this week. Now to stay Really Really busy during this TWW so I don’t stress and test too early!
Post # 54
my Mother-In-Law asked me the minute we got in town if we were pregnant. I wanted to strangle her. No, we aren’t and if we were, you ruined the surprise.
Post # 55
My mom and SIL did the same thing! Although my sister just stared at me when I refused a drink. I had to eventually drink to get her to stop staring me down!
Post # 56
Mother-In-Law was absolutely sure. She said she even told her neighbor that she was sure we would tell her we were. That would have really upset me if we had been and were planning a surprise.
Post # 57
Here is my chart so far, hopefuly I have a happy new years eve or day 🙂
Post # 58
- Wedding: September 2011 - Boy #1 12/2015, boy #2 02/2018
Your chart looks very promising!! FX this is it. Great BD timing 🙂 If I was you I would test tomorrow hehe.
Post # 60
What OPKs are you using? How often and when do you test? It’s my second time using them and it’s definitely more accurate this time because I switched to Wondfos, tested more often daily, etc etc. Sometimes it’s easy to miss the surge. Your charts look good so maybe you don’t have to rely on the OPKs.
Your chart looks very pretty!!