(Closed) Poll: How big is your bridal party?

posted 10 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2007

I don’t think that’s too big… although we had 6 bridesmaids, 6 groomsmen, 2 jr. bridesmaids, and 2 icon bearers (kind of like ring bearers). It drove my priest crazy too, but I thought it was fun!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

I have 5 Groomsmen and Bridesmaid or Best Man

2 Jr’s (A Bridesmaid or Best Man and GM)

2 Flower girls and 1 ring bear  

My church is GIGANTIC, and I’m not even kidding a little – it could hold a 15 person party on each side with out even coming close to looking cramped up there – yet my wedding coordinator about passed out when she heard how big my party was. 

Your’s sound just fine! And your pictures are going to be awesome with that group! 

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2018

I have a weird one… 2 female attendants and 4 male attendants and 2 ushers (we cant decide to do with our 2 younger brothers ).

Fiance has no female relatives at all…and I dont want random friends in my wedding party that I may or may not still talk to in a few years…so we’re very lopsided!

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

we each have 6 attendants, and i think we’re going to end up having 2 ushers. i’ve also gotten that it’s "too big" for our wedding (we have 150 guests) from some people, but whatever. the most important thing is that you honor the people who mean the most to you, and that you have an awesome bridal party!

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2009

I don’t think that’s too big.  I haven’t officially selected my bridesmaids (most of them know I’ll ask, though) but I’m either looking at 5 or 6 depending on if one will be in the country at the time of my wedding since she and her husband will be stationed in Germany at the time.  There will most likely be 6 groomsmen, too.  I will have a flower girl, a ring bearer and a page.  We plan on having 200 – 250 guests.

I was in a wedding once where there were 7 Bridesmaid or Best Man, 7 Groomsmen, a jr. bride, jr. groom, flower girl and ring bearer.  The bridal party seemed too big ONLY because there were more people standing in the front of the church than sitting in the pews. 

One of my friends was one of 15 BMs in a wedding that also had 17 Groomsmen, 2 flower girls, 2 ring bearers, some jr. attendants and a partridge in a pear tree.    It was for some crazy huge wedding with over 650 guests so maybe it didn’t look like it was too much.  Although, if I was a guest at that one, I would probably feel like the processional was never going to end.

I truly think the number doesn’t matter as long as you believe it’s important for each and every one of them to be a part of it.     

Post # 8
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Helper bee

Hmm… no bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girls, or ringbearer here.  Fairly small wedding, and we just figured it’d be easier this way.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

We are having, I guess, a bridal party of two.  My sister will stand up for me, and his brother will stand up for him.  It is only a pseudo Bridal Party, as we are not really calling them Bridesmaid or Best Man and Maid/Matron of Honor.  We just didn’t want the added issues concerned with getting everybody in matching clothes, making the girls buy dresses they would never wear again, etc.  The rest of our very good friends can just come to the party, have a great time, and be happy for us!

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2008 - Hotel on the westside of Los Angeles

A woman in my office has thirteen bridesmaids and thirteen groomsmen– now that’s a lot!

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I have 6 groomsmen and 5 bridesmaids (including honor attendants) 2 flower girls and 2 ring bearers. I don’t think your party is too big. My friend will be having 10 on each side!!! But either way, who cares, it’s YOUR day. If those are the people you love and want to recognize by making them a part of your bridal party, then I say go for it:)

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

13 *is* a lot!

We have one Maid/Matron of Honor, 3 bridesmaids, one best man, 3 groomsmen, 2 ushers, one officiant (our close friend who got ordained online), a flowergirl, and a ring bearer.  We’ll probably have between 125-150 at the wedding.

Post # 13
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2008

4 bridesmaids (all of them are my maids of honor) 

4 groomsmen

4 flowergirls

1 ring bearer

3 couples as Filipino sponsors

 

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2005

We had 1 maid, 1 man, 1 flower girl and 1 ring bearer.

Post # 15
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2008

We’re having 2 bridesmaids & 2 groomsmen.  That’s all.

I’ve been in a wedding with 12 of each and ushers and attendants also!  It was a huge bridal party, but it worked well for my friend and for the space. 

Post # 16
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2008

2 BM’s and 2 GM’s, a ring bearer and a flower girl.

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