Post # 1
I think I’ve finally decided that I’m going to go with black Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses. If possible, I would like my sister (MOH) to stand out in a lace or sequin dress.
However, my sister has huge boobs and finding a dress that she fits in properly and is flattering has been really hard. We found this dress and both think it’s really flattering on her and fits well (we started looking at evening gowns instead of Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses since I’m doing black).
However, do you think the lace pattern on this dress makes it too sexy? I wanted them to be somewhat sexy and elegant (the guys are wearing black too)….but it is a catholic wedding.
Do you think the pattern is too sexy or am I crazy?
Post # 2
I’m also doing a Catholic wedding. My church is super laid back, but double-check to make sure there isn’t a dress code. I have heard horror stories of obnoxious modesty police at churches making bridesmaids wear ugly cover-ups
ETA: I love the dress and I don’t think it’s too sexy. It’s just right. It will look great with black dresses on the other girls.
Post # 3
Wow, she looks amazing in it! However, I tend to lean more conservative for wedding attire and personally think it’s a little too sexy. I don’t think it’s the lace but the amount of cleavage which is a tad much for me. I also think the pattern is putting even more emphasis on her chest, whereas a solid black top portion would minimize it a little more. But she looks gorgeous and if you both feel comfortable with it do it!
Post # 4
I don’t think it’s too sexy. I do think that the way the pattern on the top is designed makes her look like a walking boob. I know, walking boob syndrome is horrible for those who are chest blessed. My sister bought a corset to help with hers at my wedding (her choice). On this dress, there is no point where breasts end and waist begins and I find that really unflattering. I’d keep looking.
Post # 5
Depends on the church. My sister’s wedding was in a Catholic church & there’s no way her priest would have been ok with this dress.
Post # 6
I don’t think it’s too sexy, but I do think it is not very flattering.
Post # 7
Idk I think she looks amazing in that dress! Not too sexy IMO and if she’s comfortable in it I don’t see why it would be an issue.
Post # 8
With the pattern of the lace, all I can see is her chest. I’d keep looking.
Post # 9
I would add a lace modesty panel, or a piece of black lace to bring the cleavage up by 1.5 inches.
Post # 10
I think it’s SO beautiful and classy! It’s elegant and covered, but alluring at the same time. Perfect as is.
Post # 11
You probaby don’t want to hear this, but I don’t think that dress is very flattering on her figure. I would keep looking for something that is more flattering on her. If you’re going with black Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses, there are tons of options and different styles.
Post # 12
I think this dress is too sexy for a Catholic ceremony. The lace with the nude lining combined with the sheer very very low cut = not something I would wear to a Catholic wedding.
I feel like if it was one (low cut top) or the other (sheer lace pattern) and not both, I could see myself agreeing that it wasn’t too sexy, but I think both is too sexy for a Catholic wedding.
I also think it’s not flattering on your sister. I’m blessed in the chest area and like PP’s have said, I don’t like looking like a giant boob and that’s kind of what it’s doing for your sister. Sorry!
Post # 13
not too sexy, but also not super flattering. I think she needs a fuller skirt to balance out her top half – right now she has the “ice cream cone” look going on. I’d look for an Aline gown with a defined waist
Post # 14
I don’t think it shows too much skin or anything but I do think it’s too busy and doesn’t hang right through the thighs.