(Closed) POLL: Who's name goes first? Bride or Groom?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Who's name should be listed first?



  • Post # 3
    1480 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    The woman’s name always goes first as a rule of thumb.

    Post # 4
    2265 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @jg780806:  pre-wedding, woman’s name goes first. post-wedding, groom’s name goes first.

    Post # 6
    9168 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    The bride’s name is always first before marriage, after that groom comes first.

    Post # 7
    7384 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Which way sounds better? I usually go on a case-by-case basis.

    Post # 8
    4145 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    twostatesbride is correct. Bride first, then groom first


    Post # 9
    443 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Bride, always.

    Post # 10
    946 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Apparently no one told vistaprint this rule.  I just ordered our save the dates and they have his name first because that’s what the template had.  Oh well.

    Post # 11
    288 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    It’s not a big deal, but some people may notice if you put the grooms name first. The last wedding I was at had the grooms name first on everything and my mom asked me if that was normal because it sounded strange to her. I never thought much of it, but since hse noticed and said something, I’ve made sure to have my name first on everything!

    Post # 13
    128 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Oops. Doing our save the dates the wrong way round it seems.


    Post # 14
    14 posts
    • Wedding: January 2014

    I’ve only seen it with the woman’s name first so I voted bride.


    HOWEVER, after seeing the responses, if I was doing personalised items, I’d be very tempted to put the groom’s name first, just to be different. I’m pretty big on including guys, I feel like they get left out a lot, in a lot of aspects, not just weddings. :/

    Post # 15
    5486 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    The votes say it all. 

    Post # 16
    36 posts
    • Wedding: November 2013

    Well my first initial is “B” and FI’s is “S”…. so a BS wedding. This will be fun 🙂

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