(Closed) Poll: Would you be okay with another girl doing this around your partner?

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Would you be okay with another woman letting it "all hang out" around your partner?
    Fine with me, doesn't bother me one bit. : (121 votes)
    31 %
    No, that's not okay. : (232 votes)
    59 %
    Depends on what her boobs look like : (23 votes)
    6 %
    Other - leave comment! : (19 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 76
    Member
    3244 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    futurebrideesq:  some of us enjoy nudity. It can be really liberating and fun and natural and meaningless. Doesn’t make me immature to feel okay or even enjoy being naked in a big group of people providing they consent

     

    Post # 77
    Member
    422 posts
    Helper bee

    Obnoxious and inappropriate. I find it disgusting when others can’t respect people in a social setting and deliberately create an uncomfortable situation.

    Post # 78
    Member
    8442 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    LadyBear:  

    Me too. I think my only response would be , I used to look that good too…..sigh…….

    (unless, by some amazing  mischance she was older and fatter/ saggier than me, lol)

    Post # 79
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    269 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 1999

    skunktastic:  won’t hear me calling you a prude!  I wouldn’t faint over something like that.  I grew up in a very wild environment but like you I would leave.  And anyone stripping in front of my husband is no friend of mine.

    Post # 80
    Member
    218 posts
    Helper bee

    It’s in poor taste. Inappropriate.

    Post # 81
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    269 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 1999

    Laululintu:  but that’s the nude beach clause.  Whete nudity is allowed and accepted by precedent then fine.  Its about setting.  And I  grew up seeing plenty of skin, I just personally wish people would keep the their stuff under wraps.  I wouldn’t judge people who dwell in areas where nudity is practiced.  Why be a whiner?  I just wouldn’t go there. But here where I live it’s not the norm at all so anyone doing that in front of strangers or someone else’s man would be stirring up trouble.  Can’t force culture on people, you know?

    By The Way: my husband’s whole family is Finnish.  We named our kids all Finnish names: Miika Matti, Nikolai (Russian origin I know) Onni, and Annika (Swedish/Hebrew yes) Ansa.  And that licorice you guys eat is nasty!!!

    Post # 82
    Member
    269 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 1999

    SilverWire:  i don’t know.  I think it is equal ground here because if a dude hss boobs shakin around then I DEFINITELY want him to keep his shirt on! No gender bias from me!

    Post # 83
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    534 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2016

    I’d be fine with it. I don’t see how it’s disrespectful to a relationship personally. My fiancé is an adult. He can control himself around topless women.

    Post # 84
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    1123 posts
    Bumble bee

    This would bother me whether Darling Husband was there or not. Even if it was just me and a group of girls it would bother me as it is inappropriate in my opinion and not something I’d want to be around.

    I would grin and bear it if I was there but would probably go off those girls a bit and might avoid them in future.

    Post # 85
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    3870 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    usnavyfiance:  I fully understand that if my husband wants to look at other naked breasts that aren’t mine, he will find a way to do so. However, no, I would not feel comfortable with that. I don’t consider myself an uptight person, but I feel like just whipping off your top in front of other people is just not okay. It’s just inappropriate. There is a time and a place for that and it isn’t in front of a group of people.

    Post # 86
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    6040 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2019 - City, State

     

    usnavyfiance:  My SO loves boobs just like the next person. However, he is a fan of modesty in public and unless he’s at a topless bar or a strip club or something where it’s expected that people will be without their tops on, he would probably find this in poor taste. I dont’ think he would make a big deal out of it outwardly and would probably just carry on and not pay much attention to it. He’s seen plenty of boobs in his time lol so I doubt he would be in any kind of shock. I think he knows me well enough to know that I wouldn’t want him gawking (and he wouldn’t anyway) but I wouldn’t expect him to runaway screaming either. I will say this though, he wouldn’t appreciate that kind of behavior no matter what and would most likely try and distance himself from women (or men for that matter) that thought it appropriate to expose their bodies in otherwise casual social situations like this.

     

    Post # 87
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    6379 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

    I’m not the tata police, and I don’t care what others choose to do.  As for Darling Husband, if I didn’t trust his judgement I wouldn’t be with him.

    Post # 88
    Member
    949 posts
    Busy bee

    99bee:  Now, now, no need to call liquorice nasty, just because it’s an acquired taste 😉

    Post # 89
    Member
    1361 posts
    Bumble bee

    Wouldn’t bother me. I’d probably join in the fun.

     

    Post # 90
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    4539 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    They are just boobs. It wouldn’t bother me whatever the intent is of the person displaying them. If you can’t trust your partner to be faithful and a pair of boobs cause you great anxiety then maybe you should reconsider your relationship.

     

      I’m sure my husband  like most people would probably take a nice long appreciative look but it wouldn’t go beyond that. We went to Europe in summer and spent lots of time on beaches…so many people topless in different age brackets and sizes.  Nobody cared at all. It was great and I wish we adopted that more in my country.

    Edited to add… I liked the lack of body conciousness on the beaches in Europe and I wish we had more understanding of that in my country. I see topless sunbathing as part of the body acceptance thing that Europe has going on.  I also saw larger and older women wearing bikinis on the beach.  You would be hard pressed to find that on beaches at home. I am on the plus side and I have never seen a bikini in my size in the shops here.  Saw heaps to fit me in Europe.

     

     

    • This reply was modified 3 years, 9 months ago by  cmsgirl.

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