(Closed) Poll "Would you leave if he was sexting another girl?"

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: "Would you leave if he was sexting another girl and planning on meeting up with her?"
    Hell yes! : (318 votes)
    62 %
    Most likely : (161 votes)
    32 %
    No, explain. : (17 votes)
    3 %
    No, I would forgive him. : (14 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 4
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I was going to say “Hell, yes!”, but, realistically, I put “most likely”, because I would have to know more of the context (i.e. your definition of “sexting”, if it was just a girl “sexting” him without response, etc). But, yeah, I think I would leave at any sign of cheating.

    Post # 5
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    947 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    when I saw the title of your thread my initial response was going to be, “hell yes!” Then I saw you made it a polling option so that’s the one I chose. 

    regardless, if he did anything physical or not that would still be a huge trust issue for me. I would probably cut off his manly hood and hang it from the tallest branch on the tallest tree I could find 😉

    Post # 7
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    663 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2017 - Vegas Wedings

    We both consider that cheating, so yes, it would mean we are OVER. If we were married it would mean off to months of therapy we go and a huge drop in my libido. No way could I be intimate with my man after knowing he was sexting; thats a turnoff for several reasons.

     

    Post # 8
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    3772 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    If he didn’t stop… then hell yes! I know people make mistakes and I haven’t been in a situation like that.. but I can’t 100% say I’d leave him for sure if he cut off communication to the girl in question. But it would be a very good possibility.

    Post # 10
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Sorry, but IMO that is cheating.  Emotional cheating is the same, in my mind, as physical cheating.  At the very least it deserves a conversation to make sure that you are on the same page as to what constitutes “cheating” as there may be some “same page” communication problems there.

    Post # 12
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    524 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    tksjewelry:.. I totally agree with you Emotinal is cheating

    Post # 13
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    4891 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2018

    Probably. 

    It would take a lot of work and counseling for me to stay. 

    Post # 14
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    563 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    Unfortunately, moreso than not, sexting becomes less innocent and more real and physical.

    Post # 15
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    1487 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    @mepayne:  This.

    I think I would try, but I already have insecurity issues, so I just don’t know if I could actually forgive him.

    Post # 16
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    864 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    If we were already serious and exclusive than yes. If we were dating an the relationship was still new – maybe not.

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