(Closed) Poll "Would you leave if he was sexting another girl?"

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: "Would you leave if he was sexting another girl and planning on meeting up with her?"

    Hell yes!

    Most likely

    No, explain.

    No, I would forgive him.

  • Post # 17
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2017 - Vegas Wedings

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    @00Elise00  Blech. I hope for your sake you didnt know any of the details. I mean, I think most of would want to know, but then we’d end up torturing ourselves with those details.

    Post # 18
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    No, I’d deal with the issue at hand… he’s doing this because there’s something missing- We would BOTH be figuing out why, how to prevent, and regain trust.

    Post # 19
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Most likely yes if it was before the wedding. I do consider it cheating and wouldn’t want to spend the rest of my life worrying about that. Better to deal with the fallout when engaged than a divorce.

    If married already, probably not. But it would be SERIOUS counseling/accountability/trust-building time.

    Post # 20
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    I would never be able to him again and i couldnt be in a relationship where i couldnt trust my SO but you may be different and if you are willing to give him another chance just be weary and get him to cut off all communication with this other girl

    Post # 21
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    i would leave – life is too short to be miserable.

    Post # 22
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

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    @Woodstock  “I can’t 100% say I’d leave him for sure if he cut off communication to the girl in question.”

    Sexting isn’t about the person on the other end. It’s about the fantasy in his head and that can be lived out with anyone. That’s what would worry me, it seems like something that is less about a particular person that caught his eye and more about an overall propensity to be sneaky, dishonest, and cheating.

    Post # 23
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    Definitely would leave because trust would be gone and you need that for a great foundation.

    Post # 25
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

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    @00Elise00  Hugs!!!

    Post # 26
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    YES!!!!!

    Post # 27
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Emotional cheating is just as bad as physically cheating.  I would be out the door.

    Post # 28
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

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    @NAvery  what I meant is that he stopped sexting… aka cutting off communication. With that said, being married now, I still can’t 100% say I’d leave my husband if he was cheating (the cheating in this case is the sexting). It could happen… but I wouldn’t immediately throw in the towel. Like a pp said, we’d have a long road ahead of us involving lots of conseling.. in my case to figure out what caused him to cheat in the first place. 

    edit… turns out the pp was you! lol “if married already, probably not. But it would be SERIOUS counseling/accountability/trust-building time.”

    Post # 29
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Let me sum it up for you , Leave!!  i agree with a PP life is way to short! if you arn’t married GET OUT NOW!!!!! Because it is cheating emotional CAN lead to physical! 

     

    Huggs 🙁

    Post # 30
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    Busy bee

    I’d be out.

    Post # 31
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2017 - Vegas Wedings

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    @00Elise00  Im hoping you havent gone back to him, and since you werent married Im guessing the vast majority of bees agree that you did the right thing. Im terribly sorry this happened to you. Its bullsh!t. And you are in no way to blame (so I dont get flamed, this is referencing her ex trying to blame her, see other thread)

     

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