(Closed) Poor FH… need to vent :(

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 18
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

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@shaka:  that makes 2 of us. I had a child-free wedding and I did make one exception for my

cousin so I guess OP isn’t THAT upset or they would’ve done it. Unfortunately when you choose to not include kids some parents will choose not to come.

Post # 20
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@goingtotherooftopoflove:  why are any of you letting this bug you? You invited her, she declined (in a rude way), so just accept her no and give her no further thought or attention. Whatever you do, don’t try to beg her to come. 

Parents like this want you to feel bad – otherwise she would have just sent their regrets without the snarky, pointed note.  They want you to beg so they feel powerful and you feel punished.  They want family drama and outrage over your cruel choice not to have kids at your wedding. You deserve it for daring to not include their perfect little snowflake.  Don’t you understand the world will stop spinning on its axis if they leave their kid with a sitter for a few hours? 

Who needs her? Let her sit home hovering over that poor kid. 

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