Post # 1
A self-proclaimed formal wear hater, Fiance grudgingly bought himself a suit for our wedding (which he looks A-MAZ-ING in, btw). Yesterday I told him the unhappy (to him at least) news that he has to bring it on our honeymoon cruise, because there will be 4 formal nights and I’ll be damned if I’m going to spend them all hiding away in our suite eating room service just so he doesn’t have to wear a jacket to dinner. After feigning offense/threatening to jump off the boat/threatening to wear a suit jacket with pj pants, he admitted defeat. The suit is Caribbean bound…just as soon as that whole wedding thing is out of the way 😉
Anybody else with a Fiance who is allergic to suits, button-down shirts, long sleeves, more than one pair of shoes, and ties? Does he indulge you and suffer them anyway?
Post # 3
I’m SO happy you posted this! I had a 2 week long fight with my Fiance about why he had to wear either a vest or a tie, and that a suite jacket and pants was not formal enough for the groom. My Fiance is a t-shirt and jeans guy, and I’m a girl who loves to dress up, but also spends sundays in sweat pants. Generally, he will dress up for the occassion (i.e. a funeral, a wedding, and a nice dinner). he realizes things are expected of him. And since I won the tie/vest argument for the wedding I guess to answer your question, he indulges me, but VERY grudgingly. I always pull the it will make me VERY happy and I can’t imagine it any other way. Also, I find that when he realizes I think he looks good, he’s more willing to listen to me.
Either way, I’m happy to know I”m not the only one with this problem
Post # 4
@AmberAustin: Yeah, I think it definitely helps if you keep telling him how great he looks when he’s all dressed up. Fiance rolls his eyes and makes snarky comments when I do, but I can tell by his face that he’s thinking it over, going, “Maybe I do look good in this uncomfortable stuff…”
And I think he enjoys how shocked our friends are whenever they see him in a nice shirt and tie, lol.
Post # 5
We cruised for our honeymoon too 🙂
You probably don’t want to tell your Fiance this, but they weren’t very strict at enforcing the formal wear on our cruise (Royal Caribbean). One guy at our table wore a button down shirt and khakis, and we actually showed up in shorts, because our luggage got lost. No one minded or commented. 🙂
Post # 6
@ddw: Yeah, I suspect we won’t get kicked out of the dining room if he doesn’t wear a jacket, but it’s our honeymoon and I do want at least one night where we go out in all our finery looking like a million bucks. ‘Cause lord knows that suit is getting shoved in the back of the closet at lightning speed when we get home.
Post # 7
It was five years before I ever saw my Fiance in a suit.
Last time I went to visit, he wore one just to pick me up at the airport because he thought I’d like it.
Men can change after all!!
Post # 8
my fi is definitely on this list! He swears he is going to show up to the wedding in his favorite hiking boots (ugh!) I think maybe I’ve finally convinced him that it wouldn’t be appropriate but who knows!!
Post # 9
My Fiance is allergic to anything that isn’t stained and/or doesn’t have holes in it! I’ve known this man since I was 15, and our wedding day will be the first time I will ever seen him in a suit.