(Closed) Poor lil waiting bee me :P

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1192 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@sherryberry: Awww  I do the same thing… it will be our time very soon…

Post # 4
2018 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Yes, when I was at the bad part of waiting, I had to go pick up a prescription and the pharmacist had the most beautiful diamond on her hand and I couldn’t stop staring at it.  I was sick.  But your turn will definitely come and the ring envy tables will turn:)

Post # 5
1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Oh my gosh I totally stare down women’s left hands too. Cashiers, waitresses, the woman next to me in the aisle at Jo-Anns, everyone who gets on the bus…it’s totally an obsession haha. People have actually caught me craning my neck and staring super hard towards their hands trying to catch a glimpse. Awkward.

Post # 7
1729 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Yeah, I do that, too.  I went to a shower recently for my June bride friend, and only two out of about 30 women did not have a ring on their hand…. my friend who’s been dating her SO maybe a year… and of course, me, who’s been in a relationship longer than pretty much anyone in the room, save the groom’s parents.  I was good, and didn’t allow the self-pity cry to come out till I was safely in the car and on the road home. 

Post # 8
192 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Haha I do the same thing.  Everywhere I go I look at left hands! It’s such a habit now.

Post # 9
34 posts
  • Wedding: October 2012

I do that too!  Nice to know I’m not alone on it!

Post # 10
858 posts
Busy bee

I have done that too and secretly am happy when I see someone who doesnt have a ring on

Post # 11
96 posts
Worker bee

@miss sparkly cat: LOL… I hate to admit that I do that too!


We were hanging out with some friends yesterday and I was with the girls – three of them – and I realized that each one had a big rock on their finger.  Stupidly, I was relieved when a non-engaged girl came to hang out.

Also, I hope that women don’t notice how much I stare at their rings!  Although hopefully, it flatters them… instead of knowing that it is just a weeeeeee bit of envy mixed in there 🙁

Post # 12
185 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I totally do this too – and I thought I was the only one. Whenever I meet women I look at their ring fingers. And sometimes I become so mesmerized with their rings I forget I’ve been staring.  I have a friend with a nice sized diamond and I can’t stop from staring at it whenever I see her! I try to stop myself but I can’t! I really hope people don’t notice!

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