(Closed) Porn?

posted 8 years ago in Christian
Post # 77
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826 posts
Busy bee

I think you should just go with whatever you feel comfortable with, OP. I don’t think anyone else can decide this for you.

Personally, my fiancé and I aren’t very religious, we watch porn both alone and together, I’m friends with some of his favorite porn stars, and we’re doing just fine.

Post # 80
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335 posts
Helper bee

@Sunfire:  eeh, i’m sure you could find individual examples, but i’m talking more about the sex industry as a whole, especially when so many female porn stars have balloons on their chests and “corrected” vaginas.

Post # 81
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9976 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@laceywings:  Yeah, that part is kinda creepy, lol . . .

Post # 82
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463 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2016 - Beck Rec center

I think that watching Porn as a couple is not bad there are BIGGGER sins to tackle. Me and my Hubby dont watch not because of religious reasons, we just don’t watch. I think we are very prude on sexuality in a marriage if you cant be free with your inhibitiona with your spouse than who can you be free with

Post # 83
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38 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Coming into this one late but Fiance & I had just talked about this yesterday.  I work days, he works nights.  He will watch porn at night while I am asleep.  I have no issue with it at all.  He says he needs to stop/cut back because it’s like a gateway drug – can lead to other things/thoughts etc.  I guess I was surprised to hear that but I can respect what he’s saying.  Now we’ve just got to work on a schedule for alone time considering our weird schedules! 

Post # 84
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102 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I think that a lot of conservative christains place too much importance on porn being horrible. Most people I know that watch it don’t do it that often, are not addicted, and can tell the difference between what’s real and what’s acting. I don’t think it needs to be that big of a deal, if it helps you have a more exciting sex life go for it.

Post # 85
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247 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

As Christians, my husband and I believe watching porn is a sin. 

 

Matthew 5:28 “But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust in his eye has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”

Just because it is on a computer does not mean it isn’t a human.

Post # 86
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120 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

@MsNarwhal:  My Fiance has a terabyte of porn saved on an external harddrive. I’ve helped him pick out downloads, even sent some to him. He watches it by himself, we’ll watch it together. Shoot, we’ll even watch it with a group of people in the living room. While porn is people having sex, it’s really NOT that sexy to watch. We spend most of our time laughing at how ridiculous they sound, how uncomfortable the angles would be in real life and how not good the sex they’re having is. When we do watch porn on our own, it’s not an “Oh, look how hot they are, I would totally do her all the time,” it’s a “Oh, look how hot that is, I would totally do that to my SO all the time.” I’m Christian, but like others have said, if both parties are comfortable with it, then there’s no reason to telll them they can’t.

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