(Closed) Porn?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: would SO watching porn bother you?
    Nope doesnt bug me one bit. : (171 votes)
    49 %
    It does a little but I would never say anything. : (49 votes)
    14 %
    yes it does : (110 votes)
    32 %
    other ill explain. : (18 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    726 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    @organizedbride11: nope, I know he does here and there. My only problem is if he tries to hide things from me. If you can tell me, than I dont have a problem with it 🙂

    Post # 4
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    1077 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    The poll choices are no, sort of, and other.  Could you add a yes?

    I think my Darling Husband finds it more exploitative than I do, and I’d be stunned if he was seeking it out.

    Post # 5
    Member
    7777 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    Nope. It really doesn’t bother me. *shrug* He doesn’t sneak around and do it, lie about it and isn’t addicted to it so I really don’t care.

    ETA: We both watch it and we’ve watched it together. It can be very inspirational in the bedroom. lol

    Post # 6
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    68 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: June 2012 - Hollins House at Pasatiempo, Santa Cruz CA

    @jenbee: I totally agree. It bothers me a little, but if he’s honest about it and isn’t trying to be sneaky, then there really isn’t a problem. Also, it doesn’t matter to me if it’s not affecting our lives. Hey, if he wants to look when I’m out shopping or out of town, haha go ahead.

    Post # 7
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    1398 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Nope.  Doesn’t bother me at all.  In fact, I’ve TRIED to get my Fiance to watch it with me, and he flat out refuses.  He’s not a fan. 

    Post # 8
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    1835 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Most of the time we watch it together so no, it doesn’t bother me. I am not naive enough to think he doesn’t look at it “behind my back.” I can’t say I blame him, he does have a 5 1/2 month pregnant woman to look at lol!

    Post # 9
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    1553 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I voted other.  My husband watches it with me, but not by himself.  He used to watch it alone, but since he got me to watch it with him, he decided he much preferred it that way and hasn’t watched it alone since then.

    Post # 10
    Member
    2192 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    Nah, doesn’t bother me at all. We mostly watch it together and if he is watching it he normally tells me. Not a big deal to me.

    Post # 11
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    6009 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    My husband stopped looking at porn when I got pregnant.  He says it grosses him out now that we have a kid.  🙂

    Post # 12
    Member
    3624 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    It doesn’t bother me at all. It’s a natural thing.

    Post # 13
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    921 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    It would bother me.. but I think it bothers him more than it bothers me so it’s not something I have to worry about. Honestly I probably couldn’t be with someone who didn’t have the same views on it as me. I don’t condem people who do watch it how ever.. it’s just not for me.

    Post # 14
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    1088 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Yes, it would bother me.

    Post # 15
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    2829 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    hahahah I actually look at/like porn more than he does (and I look at it very very rarely). It doesn’t bother him in the least and it wouldn’t bother me either if he looked at it occassionally. I mean if we were talking a porn addiction that would be a different story because well, then it would be addiction and not just pornography.

    Post # 16
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    10287 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Not in the slightest. The way I see it, it’s less work that I have to do. 🙂

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