- 7 years ago
Ok so this is totally under an alias. I really didn’t want this connected to my real username. I’d like to mention that this has nothing to do with me, yet it has been bugging me all day, maybe it was just audacity of the people involved, or maybe it was seeing the wife with their child so oblivious to what was going on, but I have been bothered by this alot. And this is kinda long….. So bear with me 🙂
Yesterday was Easter, and so I took my son to an egg hunt, at the local gathering. Many people were there, with their children. I went with my two sisters, and my one sisters kids were there too. We were sitting around talking when all of a sudden my sister says, “Oh shit…”
I ask her what, and she says ” Theres sucha and such.” I remember her telling me about this guy before, saying that this man was going to make her a business partner in one of his businesses overseas. (For some background info, my sister does not have any post secondary education, or even secondary, for that matter. Not to offend anyone, because I do know you can have a great career without the said, just thought it was somewhat relevant.) So I respond with, ” Well go say hi….” Oooh niave me! And she responds back with ” Oh I can;t his wife is there.”
So obviously the wheels start turning in my head. The guy parks a spot literally right across the small field ( Maybe 100 feet) with his son, and pretty wife. My sister then starts eyeing him up, and he in turn is eyeing her up, almost immeditely. So I, ask again, quite annoyingly, ” So why can’t you go say hi, and introduce yourself to his wife, if you are going to be his business partner?” And my sister replies with ” Because he is a well established business man here, and really well known, so he doesn’t want to be seen with me..” ummmmm ok…?
Next I see my sister texting, and I see this guy turning away from his pretty, oblivious wife, and reading and texting back. I was furious. I was furious that his wife was right there with thier maybe 18 month old son. I was furious that there he was n a “family day”, checking out my sister, and texting her behind his wifes back. ( Just thought I would mention I am not 100% certain they were texting, but it sure seemed like it). I was furious that she would do that to his wife, and their child, and tried to pretend there was a business deal going on. Yeah very business like. They didn’t say one word to eachother. Like 2 peole having an affair.
I was furious that I have a child, and a fiance, and that my sister lacks any kind of respect for that kind of family unit. I was pretty bitter last night, and my insecurities got ahold of me. I even fought with my fiance, thinking maybe he would do that, because I wouldn’t even know. It was sad to see this wife so trusting, and happy, and laughing, and look what was going on behind her back.
Anyways thanks for listening, I just wanted to vent a little…………