Post # 1
Just this past week I found out horrible news. My father (who lives overseas) found out he has rectal cancer and possibly won’t be able to come to my wedding. I just can not imagine not having him there. I did think about moving my date for him, but he told me that I shouldn’t. I’m really afraid of the out come. I also feel a little selfish that I am wanting him to come to the wedding.
Has any one planned on having there wedding on one day, but then had to change it because of other circumstances?
Post # 3
I so sorry, that is a horrible situation. DON’T feel selfish for wanting him there! It’s a very important day for you so of course you want him there. I am sure that he really wants to be there too. I haven’t had to change our date but I wanted to send hugs. 🙂
Post # 4
I am sorry. I understand you wanting your father there so don’t feel bad about that. Just take it one day at a time and pray about it.
Post # 5
I’m sorry for your news. I think you should not move the date, especially since moving it up might put it when he is in treatment and unable to travel. He probably doesn’t want you to change it so that he has something to look forward to and a goal to get him through treatment.
Post # 6
Thank you all for your comments. Thank you for the hugs too.