- 3 years ago
- Wedding: April 2017
pbeave09876 : to be honest this sounds very fishy. first of all why in the world have you been checking his stuff for 3 years if nothing like this has ever happened?? that alone doesnt make sense to me. if you dont have trust you dont really have anything. do you want to spend the rest of your life checking his stuff? surely after this you will have even more trust issues. me and several people i know have recieved spam emails from dating and porn sites, but they have never taken us to an account that was previously made with our personal information. please dont believe his lies. he made those accounts. it sounds to me like you’re in denial. trust me i know how it is when you love someone and dont trust them. when they deny something you want to believe them so badly, but he clearly isnt being honest. first of all these accounts pop up after you guys had a fight and on top of that there was a craigslist post??? there is no way someone could have posted that as spam. he clearly posted that as it was in his email sent folder. I wouldnt advise snooping and its probably already deleted, but i have no doubt that you would have found that craigslist post in his web history. this is cheating to me, he may not be doing anything physical with anyone yet, but when someone is creating dating accounts and posts on craigslist and then lying about it, theyre already cheating. you really need to think long and hard if this is the type of realtionship you want. trust me itll only get harder. i wish you the best of luck.