- 4 years ago
so…around 4 weeks ago I wrote a post on here basically getting all excited as Boyfriend or Best Friend randomly asked what style of ring I liked.
Well..a few more developments have taken place 🙂 2 weeks ago, we were sitting on the sofa watching TV, he was on the internet on his phone and a wedding ring ‘E-pop-up/advert’ came up…he casually said ‘is this the kind of ring you like?’ I leant over, said ‘yep!’. And that was that. Nothing more was said. a few people have also said ‘ah, so for a pop-up advert to come up, he must of been making searches re engagement on his phone’. could be possible, but may also just be a co-incidence I thought.
More recently, I happened to notice he had something saved as a favourite to do with enagement rings on his internet. It was a jewellers webiste I know that much, but something about styles and how much the guy is expected to pay for a ring. the page said ‘two to three months salary is the norm’. WHAT! That is going to take him AGES I thought…then almost felt disappointed in a way, I thought ‘well if he has read that, then it’s going to be a while’. I’d be happy with something for a grand. It’s doesnt have to be really expensive! but of course, it doesnt tell you WHEN he saved that page as to his favourites.
Well…a futher development, at his aunties birthday bash last weekend, I got chatting to a family friend of his…both me and her were quite tipsy, I was gushing to her about how much I love him (lol!) and she said, “well, we were talking about you earlier as it goes, and u know what he said? He said ‘Yep, She is going to be my wife’.
I said “REALLY? he said that about me??’ she said “yep!!!”
Valentines day is coming up this Friday, I must say he has been acting a little strange. We love going clubbing tohether and theres a night this fRiday with all his favourite DJ’s, cheap entry fee etc, I thought he would jump at it. I suggested going afetr our meal, but he just said ‘hmmmm maybe, I will let you know’. Whats there to let me know about?? lol. I might be overthinking it. Another thing, he always makes arrnagements for val day, books the restaurant etc…well this year he just seems a bit too laid back – even I had to book the restaurant, not that I minded. But I almost over-analysed it last night, getting annoyed thinking ‘why is he not seeming enthused about val day?’
Aprt from that, no other clues. My mum and dad SWEAR he hasnt been round to their house (but then again they arent going to say ‘oh yeah he popped round and asked us if he could marry you). And I always thought, if my fella was buying a ring for me, SURELY I would be able to pick up on the signs, but I cant think of ANY time recently where I have thought ‘hmmmm whats he up to’. Do you know what I mean? i.e no ‘working late nights’, or anything that would allow him time to do it!
I guess I want to know what you ladies think, how long do you think we are looking at here? I just want to be engaged to him 🙂 We also have a holiday coming up in May.